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10 Ways to Motivate the Unmotivated Student

by TJ Ragan
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hand-drawn graid chart iwth some boxes checked off

“Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.” — unknown

As a speech language pathologist for grades 3-5 in an elementary school setting, one of the challenges I regularly face is trying to make good progress with students who are unmotivated. You know, students who don’t want to be in speech, don’t want my help, and generally don’t want to try anything I want them to try. Students who cross their arms and try to avoid making eye contact with me out of fear that I’ll try to get them to–(gasp!)–actually DO some sort of speech work.

I admit it, sometimes I’m tempted to just give up, dismiss them, and say, “Well, when they WANT to make progress, they can come back to speech.” But, really, it’s my job to motivate even my most unmotivated students.

So, what’s an SLP to do?

Here are some strategies I’ve found useful:

1. Use visual behavior tracking charts. – That’s right, reward charts aren’t just for preschoolers anymore. I have a large grid that I use as a basic chart (see photo at the top of this post) to help motivate students to participate, and I modify it for every student on my caseload. Some students earn one square per session, others earn 3 or 5 squares per session, depending on how much reinforcement they need on a given day for a given task. Once they reach a star, they earn a prize/special activity. Of course, a chart alone won’t do the trick unless the student wants the reward he’s working toward, which leads me to my next point.

2. Allow students to earn a “work free” speech session.
– What does the unmotivated student want most? To be left alone! I have two students who will work diligently for weeks or even months just for a chance to take most of a speech session “off” from speech work and just “play” on a computer or iPad during speech. (What they don’t realize is that many of their goals are addressed by the computer games!)

3. Challenge students to beat their own “record” for a certain task. – Let’s face it; drill work is awful. It’s hard to motivate even enthusiastic students to complete drills cheerfully. However, if we make the drill task timed and the student tries to beat his last score, drill work can actually become fun! For example, I’ll set my timer for a minute and see how many perfect “r” words from a set of 70 flashcards the student can produce, and then I’ll let them try again (several times) to see if they can beat their best “record.” (I got this speed challenge idea from the “Superspeed” Whole Brain Teaching game, and just modify it based on my students’ goals.) Students actually beg to stay after their regular speech time to try to keep beating their records.

4. Allow the student to be the expert by teaching a skill to younger students. – If a fourth grade student is a poor reader but can read simple picture books, he could perhaps read a book to a kindergarten class every once in a while, preparing for the reading by doing word study and learning tasks with vocabulary from the book he will be sharing. This is a much more naturally motivating experience than reading for boring old Mrs. Ragan who already knows what the book says.

5. Make tasks more hands-on. – One of my third grade students recently said to me, “I like working with you, because we do stuff, and make stuff, and build stuff.” This was a student who for the first two weeks of speech refused to do any work at all with me when I was using traditional table-work activities (even when I bribed her with silly bands, her favorite!). Good thing I wised up!

6. Make tasks more physical. – Some of my most difficult to motivate students have been won over by a few sessions of playing physical games such as “Simon Says,” “Mother May I,” “Hot/Cold,” “Lego Creator,” “Charades,” or “Pictionary.” These games can be modified to address social skills (joint attention, turn taking, flexibility, taking others’ perspective), articulation (generalizing targets to sentences and conversation), receptive/expressive language (giving and receiving directions, vocabulary building, answering questions), reading (following written directions, recognizing sight words, reading CVC words, etc.), writing (summarizing, using transitional phrases, using descriptive vocabulary, etc.), and more. I think that much of the success of this strategy comes from pairing myself with fun activities, because, after a while of doing physical speech activities, many students don’t need as much reinforcement for cooperating and engaging with me–they actually begin to be reinforced just by engaging with me! And then, boy, we can make some progress.

7. Catch the student cooperating. – Then praise, praise, praise! (Be sure your praise is specific about what you liked –ex: “Great job using “although” in a sentence!”) I find that praising students in front of their peers, or especially praising them quietly by “whispering” to a teacher just loudly enough that they overhear me, can really shift a student’s demeanor out of an unmotivated funk. (I mean, if I overheard a colleague whisper to my boss how great I was, it would knock me out of a funk, too!)

8. Treat a few students to a special lunch “party” with you as a reward/motivator. – Our time is limited as school SLPs. But we typically do have a lunch break, and every now and then, it can be fun to spend it celebrating with students. For my fifth graders, special lunches have been a highly motivating reward. I’ve had students who have worked for two months (earning tokens toward their lunch party by following teacher instructions, being on task, participating in class and speech, and writing during independent writing times) to earn a special lunch with me (with pizza delivered, or McDonalds brought in, or something fun like that). You might even be able to request PTA funds to help cover costs.

9. Be lighthearted and make mistakes yourself during therapy sessions.
– If students know that you are fun to be around, lighthearted, even silly sometimes, they are often less worried about their performance on learning tasks in your presence. And when you, the brilliant adult, make mistakes sometimes, the stress involved in trying a new task is lessened in your presence.

10. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. – Some students are going to have an extinction burst before they begin cooperating. You may put a motivation plan in place, and find that they are even more defiant and uncooperative than ever, that they won’t work even for ahuge reward. But persist. Give it two weeks. Then, if it’s still not working, you can chat with the student’s learning team and try to modify your plan.

So, the next time you’re in a battle of wills with an unmotivated student, and your only hope of rescue seems to be in the possibility that they might be moving out of state, take a minute to think outside the box, and see if you and the rest of the child’s learning team can come up with some ingenious ways to motivate the student. Then, come back and leave a comment to let me know how it went!

What have you discovered that motivates your most unmotivated students? I’d love to hear!

Read more: Here’s an article about the dip in adolescent motivation levels, with theories regarding its underlying cause, which I found pretty interesting.

[This post originally appeared on The Gladdest Thing Under the Sun.]

T.J. Ragan, MA, CCC – SLP, is a speech language pathologist, wife, and mother who lives with her husband, her four year old daughter, and their two dachshunds in Durham, NC. She works for Chapel Hill – Carrboro City Schools and The Cheshire Center and writes a blog about happiness.

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Barbara Bertot April 11, 2011 - 3:25 pm

I like all the concrete ideas to help motivate students.
I especially liked the advice to be a little “silly” and make mistakes…..since I do this “naturally” I have found it to be helpful at relaxing anxious students and having a more light hearted atmosphere to work in. Now, my High School and Middle School students who are honestly unmotivated? Now, that’s a different story!
They are great one-on-one with me, but how to get the transfer and carryover of staying motivated with others is a real challenge. Any ideas?

TJ April 14, 2011 - 10:02 pm

Thanks, Barbara! I know, generalizing motivation is a whole other battle, huh? We use a “daily report card” token economy system at my school, which helps some, but might be a little more difficult with older students. Hmm, I’ll have to think on that!

Becca April 13, 2011 - 9:21 pm

“(I mean, if I overheard a colleague whisper to my boss how great I was, it would knock me out of a funk, too!)”

LOL…I love that line! Great post. 🙂


TJ April 14, 2011 - 10:02 pm

Thanks! Love your blog, by the way!

Sobia December 16, 2011 - 7:22 am

I’m currently teaching English to grades 5 and 6 in an international school in Pakistan. English being the second language for students here make it hard for them to understand complex vocabulary and most of all grammar has become a big challenge for me. Sometimes I feel that student loose their interest in class when they keep on struggling to understand the material related to grammar. How can I make it more easier for the students to understand the grammar and how do I keep them motivated in class participation?

I would appreciate your suggestions. Thanks

Tariq December 4, 2013 - 12:49 pm

Add me with the same problem, help is desperately needed…..

Gian Carlo February 2, 2012 - 4:56 am

i like your idea, i suppose to buy it… maybe next year if i am going to teach Language to high schoolers here in our town…

fayoood March 9, 2012 - 11:13 am


randomlou55 September 21, 2012 - 10:38 am

This is an excellent blog on how to motivate kids, not just how to teach children, or how to motivate kids with speech challenges. I love this blog post, it teaches us how to figure how to help children do what we know will be good for them. I think you can also apply some of these techniques to adults, too.

ABDUL ISSA January 7, 2013 - 8:12 am

thank for the best answer which help me to know more about ways to motive the children God blessing you.

Mr BADRI April 18, 2013 - 10:18 am

I am a teacher of secondary level.I am from Nepal.I teach English.But I found that all my students are not eager to read English because it is not their native language .so how to motivate those students towards second language learning.

radha sreedhar October 6, 2013 - 11:19 am

my grandchild who is studying in12th is less motivated. he studies but not at all working hard.he wants just some pass marks. he gets it easily by sitting very little time. what to do ?he has no high ambition. al most all the teachers comments ?put little more effort and he can gain a lot”.but he is not atall putting any effort in his studies.

bkrispy October 22, 2013 - 10:27 am

My 3rd grade son has a huge daydreaming problem! He tests very high when he pays attention, and ended 2nd grade with a 5th grade reading level – yet he brings home d’s and f’s because he won’t do his classwork! His teacher says he is constantly catching him at his desk just eating his pencils and spacing out. He has a wonderful imagination, but I think he’s lost in it somewhere. I need him to come back to earth. I’ve tried motivating him with just about everything, and offered him sums of money and toys that most kids would do anything to have, but he is perfectly content just daydreamiing.
I need help!

Aneesa October 24, 2013 - 11:06 pm

Pizza parties, tickets for a raffle, positive comments, and enthusiasm!

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